Sunday, March 27, 2011

My Birthday

Greetings Love,

Yesterday was my birth-day, Yayyyyyy!!!

You want to take a guess on how I spent my fabulous birth-day???

Go head, I'm waiting...

Ok, Times up....LOL

I took my boys to the movies to see "Diary of a Wimpy Kid" That movie was great, I really enjoyed it, it was mad cool, and the creator for that movie gets brownie points from me and my boys also.

My 6yr old sat next to me with his box of popcorn, little fruit snack and an icee which was the wild cherry flavour.

My 9yr old and my lil brother sat next to each other, smacking on nacho's...LOL

My husband decided that he didn't want to come with us, and that he was tired, I was a little upset, because I was thinking..."Dude"'s not about you, it's about me…Like's my birth-day!!!!

I let it pass, and we gathered our things and we lefted the building...LOL

Well, after the movies, my boys were like...Mom, What's next? I said....Yall are not hanging with me all day for my birth-day...LMBO

Anyway we got back home, and my cousin and her boyfriend called and wanted to treat me to some wine for my birthday, and they came over, we talked, and drunk wine, while the children were in their room playing they games.

I enjoyed myself, I got a little tipsy I can say, and they left. My husband and I watched TV for a little, or the TV watched me, because I went to sleep. My husband was watching "Clockers" I think that's a Spike Lee movie, but anyway I didn't like it, and I think that's the reason why I fell asleep.

So, I made it out of my 30's and I'm feeling fabulous as hell!!!!

I look forward to my 40's and all that it has to offer me, which is going to be OUTSTANDING!!!!!

You know, 40's is the new 30's...Ha… That's what I told my aunt, but I'm 40 and I feel like I'm 25!!!! I'm so much wiser, I'm stronger, and I'm everything that I am...

I'm peaceful, I'm happy, I'm loving, I'm outgoing, I'm fun, I'm smart, I'm sexy, I'm smart, I'm spiritual, I'm delightful, and I'm so much more! LOL...

I'm everything GOOD, I'm everything GOD says....I AM!

Until Next time,

Live, Laugh, and Love

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Good Day All!

Well, it's been a long time, a very long time…..I'm sorry, your girl been going through some stuff and I'm working it out.

It's all good, God got my back!

So, I'm in the process of looking for a job or shall I say I'm looking for some clients for my new business.

My temporary job have ended, it lasted for 4months. I pretty much liked this past job, I enjoy being an Assistant, and that's why I came up with the idea of being a Virtual Assistant. The reason why I choose to be a VA is because I can work from home.

I really want to work from home, and be there when my boys come home from school. I would have their snacks and Dinner ready for them, and we can go over their home-work.

I just really want to work from….PERIOD!!!

I really want to work for myself…PERIOD!!!

While working at this last job, I kind of felt like they didn't appreciate me, I worked hard, I was very friendly, and I was very helpful, and whatever they needed something done, I never hesitated to do it!

I put a lot of energy into these Companies that I worked for, because I work as if I'm working for God! I think they didn't appreciate me, so I just simply made the decision to work from home, to work for myself, and still work as if I'm working for God, but in my own business.

Do you understand what I'm saying?

So, I'm in the process at this very moment, on working as a Virtual Assistant from home.

I set my own hours…

I set my own pay…

It's my business, I set everything up according to what I want, so if any of you, or if you know someone who is looking for an Assistant or in need for one.

Please let me know, my business is still in the first stages. I'm working on the website, business cards and everything at this moment.

I'm also working on a blog for it as well, so look out for it.

My email is

Please send me an email if you looking for a VA or if you know someone who needs a VA (Virtual Assistant)

The services that I'm offering are….


Data Entry…

Answering Emails…

Answering phone calls…

Travel Plans…

Online research…

Making Appointments…

Send & Receive emails…

Prepare Mailing (including Marketing materials, holiday cards, thank you notes, & Etc.)

Customer Service…

Make online purchases…

Pay bills…

Manage Contacts…

Transcribe Voicemail messages…

Bulk Mailing…

Schedule Interviews & Other appointments

Personal Concierge services

So, those are the services that I'm offering, and I'm also working on my Travel Business from home as well, look out for that also!

Your girl is pretty busy; I'm really trying to work from home, and for myself.

I'm really tired of working for other people, and working for temporary services, it's really a pain, at least for me.

So, I'm about to start blogging more often, and I hope you guys haven't totally wiped me out or shall I say…Deleted me!!!!

Look for me to be blogging on the regular, I promised, I pinkie promise…LOL

Until, next time

Peace & Blessings

Brown Sistah

Friday, December 31, 2010

Happy New Year!!!!

Peace & Love to you all,

I am wishing everyone a safe, and A Happy New Year!!!
I'm being very lazy at the moment, but please come back tomorrow, so that you can read my goals for 2011, I have a lot that I would like to accomplish, but I will only be posting a few, for the month of January, as a matter of fact, I think every month, I will be posting new goals, please leave your commits, and suggestions. I'm looking forward to positive feed back, if you will.

Until next time,

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Ok, I'm really back this time!!!

Greetings Love,

How is everybody doing? Fine I hope, Well Thanksgiving will be here soon, and I can't wait to eat some stuffing, I mean I want it right now, all that other food they can keep, but I only want some good ole stuffing...LOL

I never cooked a holiday meal, not once in my life, but since I'm in the process of moving into my own place, I will try and cook something for Christmas.

I want it to be something different, basically I'm tired of the same traditional holiday food, I think I may look and search for a good vegetarian holiday meal to prepare since I plan on becoming vegetarian soon.

My family and I will be moving to our new apartment on December 1st, and I can't wait! We were suppose to be or should have relocated to Atlanta this year, but something happen, which delayed our move. I haven't given up on the move totally, but we delayed it until Spring of 2011!!!

What my husband and I wanted to do was to continue staying with my mother until Spring of 2011, so that we can save money, and also to keep us from constantly moving, I got tons of books, and I'm not in the mood to keep transporting them books from location-to-location, I mean I don't really move them, my husband do, and he have a bad back, so it's not good for him either.

Ok, so my mother for half of this year were saying she wants her own place, and all that crap, but the thing was neither I or my husband were financially able to move out on our own yet.

We prayed that God would bless us with a full-time job, so that we could move into our own place, and we were going to be out, we couldn't wait. My mother is a depressed person, and she have like these crazy and different personalities that we can't deal with. My girlfriend said maybe she's Bipolar or something, I don't know, I just wanted to move.

Ok, so moving on, God have blessed me with a great job,and I love it!
I was like ok, we can move now honey,(that's what I told my hubby) I was referred by a family member about a basement apartment in her building, looked at the place, liked it, and we got it!

My mother is in the process of moving also, we are all sharing a 3-bedroom apt, and she's looking for a 2-bedroom and so am I, but guess what?

She haven't found a place yet, and we have to be out of this place by December the 5th, time is counting down!

Ok, since I would say.. around May of this year, she's been plaining to move, (my mother)and leave us here, she have packed, called people about apartments, and all that good stuff, but really... she never saved money to move, and we signed the lease again. Let me say this also, about once a year, she gets bored and wants to move, she will find something wrong with her apartment and will move. My grandmother say she's not stable...Anyway...

The thing with my mother is, when she's depressed, she wants to make everyone around her depressed as well. It worked on my husband, but not for me, I believe in God, and I have faith that he would pull us through, and he truely did!

My husband have been stressed already, because he wants to work, and be the provider for our family, he's been looking for a job for awhile, so that automatically made him depressed. God has blessed him with gifted hands, this man can repair, and build anything, so we are in the process of starting a small business, using his skills.

Like Madam C.J. Walker once said..."Don't sit down and wait for opportunities to come....Get up and make them"

Ok, back to what I was saying...My mother was thinking that she could move in with my grandmother & brother, while saving her money to move into her own place, but guess what? My grandmother don't want her there:-(.....So,

She looked at me, and said...Im'ma live with you until I find a place, and I looked at her and said...No you're not!!....Yall should have seen her face...LOL

Can yall understand why I said no? Again, half of this year she have been stressing about wanting her own place and wanting us to move out on our own, making it very stressful for us, and knowing damn well my husband and I have been trying to find jobs, and I was working part-time, paying half on just about everything I could, we provided our own food, and we cleaned up! I mean my husband did stuff for her, my brother wouldn't and still will not do, everything she asked him to do, he will do it! She talked bad about my husband to my brother, and my grandmother, she even told me, that she's moving, and my boys & I can come, but not my husband, it was a mess, but God pulled us through child, Amen to that people!

Now look at her, yall should see her (I wish you could see her) she is very depressed now, yall don't understand, how she stressed us out with her different personalities, her threating to move on us, and look who needs who now, you see God don't like ugly and he sure ain't crazy about pretty!

I know she's my mother, and I love her, and I would pray for her, but I can't live with her any more. I'm not depressed, and I don't want that spirit around me or my family.

Although, she is a Gemini, and I here that they have many personalities (sorry Gemini's) I can't deal with that, it's a energy drainer, and I'm not dealng with it!

So, let me ask you...

Would you allow your parent to move in with you for awhile, even though she/he basically made your life a living hell while living with her?

I want to hear from you...Talk 2 me!

Peace & Blessings,
Brown Sistah

Friday, April 9, 2010

I'm back!!!

Well, look for something from me soon, a lot have been going on with me lately and I will be posting it real soon. I'm sleepy at the moment, so check me out tomorrow peeps!

Peace & Love!

Friday, January 1, 2010


I'm so thankful for a new year, I give all praises and honor to God!

Be Thankful

PSALM 100...

Make a joyful shout to the Lord, all you lands!

Serve the Lord with gladness; come before His presence with singing.

Know that the Lord, He is God; it is He who has made us, and not we ourselves; we are His people and the sheep of His pasture.

Enter into His gates with thanksgiving, and into His court with praise. be thankful to Him, and bless His name.

For the Lord is good;
His Mercy is everlasting, and His truth endures to all generations.

Peace & Blessings,
Brown Sistah

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Howdy Partner!

Where have you been? Some may ask.....

Well, I been working 3rd shift again and I know I posted before, that I will never work another 3rd shift again, but brown sistah needed some cash...LOL

I'm still at the same Company, which is Bank of America as a Processing Clerk again, I don't understand why they laid us off in the first place, just to call us back 2months later!

Christmas is slowly approaching, or should I say...It's approaching fast!
I haven't done any shopping and really I don't plan on doing a lot of shopping, because that's not what Christmas is about, I'm not about to be out there spending all my money or the little money that I have.

Look out 2010 is around the corner, Do anybody have any goals or plans for the new year?
My Goals are for 2010 will consist of me...

1. Releasing some weight and start eating alot more healthier. I need to get rid of alot of weight, I will not tell you how much, but it's more then 30lbs!

2. Fitness, Along with eating healthier and releasing weight, I have to include fitness.
I have a treadmill, so I'm going to work out at least 4-5 times a week for 30-45mins. I'm also interested in starting some kickboxing class and swimming.

3. My family and I will be relocating to a new city in March or April and we all pretty excited about that and actually I'm in the process of planing that now. Hopefully, the job I'm with now can transfer me, since they have a Company there also. My goal is to be moved by June 2010!

4. I will be starting college in 2010, I haven't really decided what school yet, but It's between two schools and they both are located in the new city, in which I will be relocating to. My goal is to choose the school and enroll for Summer or Fall 2010

5. My Book, yes I have a couple of books in my head, but I can only do one at a time and for now, I will start with The Book for African American Families. My goal is to have half of the book written by July 2010!

I can go on with the goals and plans that I have for 2010, but I have to start with what I have written above, but I forgot to mention, that my number one goal should have been, my number 2 goal, because My #1 goal is to continue working on building my relationship with God, that is like before EVERYTHING!

I will continue to attend church regularly. Prayer, I will continue and forever will be praying daily, but more than once a day or only when I need him/her, I will be more active in my conversation or prayer with God, I will included him in everything, I mean everything, because it's not about me, it's about him and what he wants for me.

Daily Bible read, I was reading a book and it's called The Purpose Driven and the author says that, if you spend at least 15mins a day, reading the Bible, you would have read the entire bible in a year. So, I have 15mins a day and really more time than that to read the bible, but I don't.
I can say that I spend about 15mins reading the Bible about 3-4 times a week, so I have to make it a priority to read it at least 15-20mins on a day to day basis.

Do anybody have any more idea's I can use to work on building a more loving relationship with our God? Please share it with me.

Well, that's it for now folks, but I promise to do better with my posting.

I basically be on facebook alot, so if anybody interested in being my friend, please leave a comment and I will get back with you!


Pretty Brown Sistah