Guess what happen? There have been some family mess going on in my neck of the woods, I mean in my family...LOL...My brother and my cousin husband got into a heated argument, which almost lead into a fist fight. Now, my cousin husband & my brother were friends, I would say somewhat close, yeah somewhat close as we thought, until the other day....LMAO!
Well here is what happen, there were 2 boys playing together outside, both are related, one is my little brother age 9 and of course one is my cousin & her husband child who is 7 and they both are bad azz hell, they both tell lies alot and that's the reason my 6yr old don't play with them much (he's one of those kids that don't like playing with children with bad behaviors, but my 3yr old will, How funny is that?)LMAO!
Anyway, the 2 little cousins have gotten into a fight or some kind of argument, like little kids do at some point in life, well my cousin son went crying to his dad who was just across the street from the park (telling another lie) stating that my lil brother was fighting him, ok neither one of them are innocent, not one of them, you here me...LOL...my cousin son, let's just call him LiL Sean and call his dad Big Sean. They both walked across the street to approach my lil brother, let's call him Eric, so Big Sean gets heated every time he thinks someone is doing his bad azz child wrong and from what I see all the time lil Sean is constantly in trouble, he got kicked out of school and both parents goes to the school and cuss the teachers out and they know their child is bad, sh** I'm like wtf!!!
They both approach my lil bad azz brother and Big Sean starts to yell at my lil bad azz brother, wtf!! Right? That's what we said, once we saw my lil bad azz brother run in the house crying...lol
To make a long story short, my mother asked my lil bad azz brother, (who is not an Angel) because he got suspended from school on more than 1 occasion, along with other bad azz sh** he do. She asked him what happen and my lil brother starts to explain, so my mother listen and gave him a talk and forgot about the whole situation. Me, I was thinking (hell now) that could not have been my child because I would have approached Big Sean azz, but I wouldn't had to approach Big Sean azz, I have a big "6'2 and 220lb muscle bound husband who would have done that for our child...LOL...but being the peaceful person that I am, It will be nice for me to address the issue with Big Sean because it wasn't gonna be nice with my hubby kickin that azz...lmao!
I don't like to fight and the situation can be taken care of by communication, I would have simply approach Big Sean like...
Me: Um, excuse me Big Sean, but what just happen here? (in a peaceful manner)smile!
Big Sean: Well, lil Sean says that Eric (my brother) keep picking on him.
Me: Ok and what was your approach to my lil bad azz brother?
Big Sean: Well, Brown Sistah, I yell at him and told him to leave my son alone.
Me: So, you only listen to your son side of the story.
Big Sean: Well, yeah!
Me: So you honestly think that your child had no part in their little situation and that it was all my lil bad azz brother fought.
Big Sean: Yeah, well no. (looking stupid)
Me: Which one is it? "Yes or No" circle one
Big Sean: (really looking stupid)
Me: Ok, well listen, please don't yell at my lil bad azz brother no more, because you don't want no one to even disciple your lil bad azz son and you was suppose to get them together as a Adult and try to reason with them both in stead of taking just your son side of the story only, there are 2-sides to each story and we both know they're both little lying, bad azz kids, so please next time handle this situation differently or else I'm gonna have to myself and I'm kick both their azz.
How you like that?
Back to the real story, My brother that is close to my age, heard that Big Sean, told lil Sean that next time Eric(my lil brother) hit him, he told his son to pick up a bat, (Yes a BAT) and hit him up side the head with it. I was like WTF!!!!!
So, my brother got mad and he said that he was going to approach Big Sean about that sh** he told his son, lil Sean. We felt that what he told his son was not appropriate and we didn't appreciate it, here we are family and you being a grown azz man that you are, you go and tell your son some crazy stuff like that. WTF!
That wasn't even nice to do to a stranger and that's why people (our people) can't get along together today because of some bullsh** like that, What ever happen to let's talk it out? What happen to family? or just What Happen period?
Well, as soon as my brother seen Big Sean, he approached him like a man and tried to get some understanding about the situation, but being the Ignorant person Big Sean is he tried to pick a fight with my brother because his bigger friends were around and even at some point tried to jump on my brother, all over some bad azz kids. Luckily, my brother friends came around to try to get this what was "about" to be whop azz fight under control or somebody would have gotten hurt over some da** bad azz kids sh**. And which the lil bad azz tag team probably have forgotten about they little fight from the beginning.
All I have to say to you grown AZZ men, stay the hell out of a kids fight!
Peace & Love!
Pretty Brown Sistah